HEY LIFESTYLERS (and the Curious!)
I created this blog to keep in touch with all you lovely, sexy couples from across the globe. My goal? With my guidance and your experiences, we can educate and prepare anyone considering a trip to a Lifestyle resort—specifically Spice Lifestyle Lanzarote, where I’m currently holding it down. We’re here to get you ready, mentally and physically, for the ride of your life.
A Quick Recap: What is Spice?
Spice is a 67-room spacious resort just 5 minutes from the beach. Our policy is simple: No children, no prudes, and no small-minded baboons. We offer total discretion and a comfortable environment where open-minded people can communicate, build self-esteem, and—of course—Rock the Party. But don’t think that’s all we’re about; that’s just the starting line. (Check out www.spicelifestyle.com for the full view).
Defining the “Lifestyler”
If you’re new here, “Lifestyler” is the term for someone open-minded and strong in character. As a species, we don’t judge; we’re open to conversation with anyone. In my experience, these are some of the healthiest, strongest couples I’ve ever met. Our “army” includes:
- Swingers & Libertines
- Naturists & Voyeurs
- Fetishists, Dommes, and Subs
- The “Curious” and my personal favorite… my army of hot bitches!
Every couple comes for a different reason: a romantic getaway, fulfilling a lifelong fantasy, meeting like-minded people, or simply the liberation of roaming naked. (Well, except in the restaurant—health and hygiene regulations, folks! lol).
This Week’s Focus: The Swinging Community
What is a Swinger? Well, for starters, you can’t be a swinger without a partner! Essentially, it’s a couple looking for another couple that fits their “requirements.” We generally see two types:
- Soft Swing: Sensual foreplay and intimacy.
- Full Swap: The option to play with another partner, whether it’s hard-pounding intercourse together or in the privacy of separate rooms.
In my experience, swingers—full or soft—are the most respectful guests because they abide by rules agreed upon beforehand. This is the secret sauce. It ensures no one gets jealous, upset, or confused later. To survive in this lifestyle, Honesty and Trust are the only policies that matter.
The Evolution of the Swing
The most common story I hear goes like this: The first seven years of marriage are great. Then, natural instinct kicks in and urges for more. They introduce toys, their bond becomes unbreakable like best friends, and they realize they can be 100% truthful with each other. The next logical step? Adding two new bodies to the equation!
Whether the couple is Australian, French, Spanish, or Afghan, the story is always the same.
Is There Any Going Back?
I’ve almost never heard of a couple “converting” back to a “Normal” lifestyle. I mean, come on… once you’ve experienced a life full of passion, sex, games, and variety, who could go back to a controlled routine?
Challenge: If you were once a swinger and went back to the “Vanilla” world, I want to hear from you! Tell us your story and your reason (separations don’t count).
My conclusion? These couples are truly happy. They walk hand-in-hand with a smile like mine, sharing each other intimately or simply enjoying their partner with a new perspective. They’ve found the modern-day cure for a successful, uncomplicated life. Whether you’ve been together 3 years or 30, you are AMAZING.
Master Spice’s Recommendations
At the end of every blog, I’ll be recommending the best erotic products and services out there.
This week’s shout-out: My friend Laney over at SOMUCHSEXY.com. It’s a fantastic site dedicated to lingerie, clothing, shoes, and toys, with a great priority on plus-sized options.
- Promo Code: Use SP1674 for FREE SHIPPING.
- I don’t recommend many businesses, but this one is classy and full of tasteful products. Good luck, Laney! xxxxx
And finally, a shout-out to the naked, be-jeweled beauties sitting around the bar right now, engulfing their mojitos and watching me work… bad fufu’s! lol xxxxx
Time to get back to the action. For now…
BIG DIRTY KISSES TO ALL.
Master Spice